Yippie, Nate's umbilical stump fell off today! Man is time going quick. Diaper changes will be much easier now!
Someone told me to take a photo of Nathan once a week with the same stuffed animal so its easy to see how much he grows and changes. So here is our little man at one week old! The week has gone by quick! Nate is sleeping pretty well at night letting us get a 4 hour stretch then after feeding usually we get another 3 hour stretch! Can't beat that eh?
Okay let me just say that I have the BEST husband ever! I don't know how I got so lucky. Dave has been so awesome. He does it all! He has been keeping up on the dishes, laundry, cooking, and cleaning. Then he is on diaper duty all the time. I can count the number of diapers I have changes on one hand seriously!( don't worry the baby is peeing and pooping a ton) Dave has been a huge help as we are working on breastfeeding, and after a feeding he always scoops the baby up to burp him. It is amazing.
Luckily the nursing is getting easier and Nate has been exclusively on breast milk for a full 3 days now! Today I was able to get him going without Dave! I could tell Dave was relieved. I think we are both worried about where we will be when Dave has to return to work on the 25th. We still have a few kinks to workout, but we have decided to continue working at it and if we have to keep feeding like we are( with a nipple shield), then we will do it as long as we can and if we have to go to formula feeding then we won't be upset. I have lots of milk so we are just hoping it continues while we work at this. Nate has been sleeping much better since we stopped using formula to supplement. So have we! We love this little man! Watching him is such a thrill. He makes the funniest expressions. We both really enjoy snoozing with him in the recliner with the boppy. ( one at a time of course) It is a lot of work but it is so enjoyable and rewarding.
So on Thursday, like I blogged before, I went to my weekly OB appointment. Thank goodness I had Dave with me. The Doctor checked my cervix and saw that I was dilated to 4cm. I told her she could strip my membranes, and she did but couldn't reach all of it because baby was still pretty high. After that fun part was over I mentioned that the baby hadn't been real active the past couple days. Actually I was really terrified on Wednesday because I went almost all day without any squirming or kicking, but right when I was ready to call Dave and tell him I wanted to go get checked of course the little guy started acting up so I decided to just bring it up at my appointment the next day. Well, the doctor wasn't very happy with me. after a lecture she sent me right down to Labor and Delivery to be put on a monitor to make sure the baby was okay. They had me hooked up for an hour and he was fine, but she decided to do an ultrasound to check fluid levels. When she did she didn't find the fluid levels high enough for her to feel okay with me continuing, so she told me I was having my baby. We begged to be able to run home and get my stuff and get things straight, finally she told us okay, but we had to return to L & D before 7 pm or she was going to come after us. She actually asked Dave where we lived on base and which street and our house number. Haha. SO with our 3 hours we ran to the grocery store to get some basics, then ate dinner, and picked up the house a bit.
We made it back to L & D before our 7 o'clock curfew and they took me back to the delivery room. They didn't end up getting the pitocin started until 9:20 because they were medivacing someone out and everyone was busy with that. Almost right away I started feeling crampy and as they increased the dose they got stronger. At midnight they were only as bad as my worst period cramps so I was really worried I would be in labor forever. Anyhow, at midnight my doctor came in and checked me and I was almost 6 cm dilated. She broke my water and the instant she did I thought I was going to die. The contractions got SO intense I was really unable to get through them without groaning and grunting like some animal you see on discovery channel. After about 15 minutes of these insane contractions I asked for an epidural. They were sending for the guy ( he was home sleeping peacefully) but I couldn't keep control of myself during the contractions, I was really miserable. The nurse was listening to my groans and grunts and when they went a few octaves lower she decided to check me. I was at 9 and was pushing during the contractions, I didn't know I was pushing. It had only been 30 minutes since they broke my water! Well, she yelled down the hallway and about 10 people were there right away, breaking down the bed, getting the baby warmer started up getting tools and stuff ready and the doctor rushed in and was giving me instructions about how I needed to push when she said. Dave and I were both still there saying 'Wait, what is happening'. I pushed for 6 or 7 contractions and he popped out! The moment he came out I couldn't believe it was over! Just like that! At 1:05am on Friday the 8th he was born. Hey 3 hours and 45 minutes of labor is a piece of cake! I can do anything for 4 hours of my life. They took him over to the warmer and I was left laying there asking, "Was that it?" So, I had my baby naturally just like I had hoped.
He is healthy and happy and a really good pooper. He looks just like his daddy, and it is so amazing to watch his expressions change and see Dave in all of them! We love him so much. We are still trying to figure out the breastfeeding thing, hopefully we can get it together this week. I feel amazingly awesome considering I just had a baby. We are a happy bunch!
Nathan Victor McMath
Born February 8th 2008 at 1:05am
6 lbs 8 oz
19 3/4 inches

Today is my due date!! Still no sign of this little guy getting ready to make his exit. I feel like I am a little kid waiting for summer vacation, my birthday, Christmas Morning, the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, Trick or Treating, and water to boil all at once. It's all I can think about. I know due dates aren't anything to set your watch by, but still I have been waiting patiently this whole time to get to the 40 week marker and I made it!! Now more waiting! Woof. I was looking up something online and found this list of famous birthdays in February. Wonder who my baby will share his birthday with...
Don't you think its funny that Jimmy Hoffa was born on Valentine's Day? Dave and I have joked that it would be our luck to have the baby on Valentine's Day. We have yet to have a nice Valentine's Day together. Here is what our past years Valentine's Days have been like-
2002- I spent the entire day on the train traveling from Flint to Dallas. The total trip was 36 hours... So I mean the ENTIRE day. I arrived in Texas on the 15th...
2003- Dave and I both had to work, I was employed at the IGA in Sun City at the time... but we did get to spend a few hours together because just before I needed to leave for work I was washing a bread knife and sliced across the knuckle of my index finger, so Dave had to take me to the ER to get stitches and that took like 4 hours.
2004- I was filling in for a couple of weeks at the Military Clothing Store at LUKE and they ordered me to work a 12 hour shift on Valentine's Day...Dave had the day off for some reason and I had to work ALL day!! But I did see him for a few minutes because I found a dead mouse in the bathroom at the clothing store and me and the other girls working didn't want to touch it so I called him up to come dispose of it.
2005- It wasn't as terrible. We were actually in Michigan because we were PCSing to Japan. We made plans to have dinner with Dave's friend and my cousin, trying to set them up.... and his freind stood up my cousin. We felt so bad. So we ended up going out with my cousin and Jackie.
2006- I can't even remember 2006, I think I was in Michigan? If I wasn't then Dave was working swings and I didn't see him.
2007- We went out to a nice dinner in Hachinohe. Dave's mom was visiting so she was with us. It was a nice dinner, but still we have never gone out just the two of us.
So will this Valentine's day be spend in labor and delivery? I hope not. I don't know if I can stand waiting 10 more days for this baby to arrive! I can't wait to meet him! I will be very happy if we spend this V-Day at home with our new baby.
We went to Swan Park on Saturday, I felt like getting out of the house and I haven't been to Swan Park in a long time. It was fun to go feed the ducks. I put up an album in our photos.
I hope everyone enjoyed their Superbowl Sunday! Dave woke up at 7 this morning to watch the game live. I am so glad the Giants won, the Patriots got caught cheating and I hate it when people get away with cheating or breaking the rules!!